I just read your same thread and want to say keep it up. I'm going through a similar (albeit much much more complicated) situation that can pretty much be summed up as WAW and EA, me being the LBS and still living in the same house with all 3 adults and 2 young kids! Your story so far, and the support you have gotten give me hope and help me see things in a different light. Thanks!
M: 28 Ex: 26 T: 7y S: 3 D: 2 Open R gone bad 10/23/11: "love you as a friend, OM as true love" 11/6/11: she's exclusive with OM 12/20/11: told her I'm moving out as of 1/11/12: GAL,180s,planning move