shifting of responsibility. if you make the decisions.. it's never their fault.

"I really wish H would go back into IC so he could get a grounded opinion about his behaviors."

i second that! but i have decided not to even suggest it anymore. i'm so tired of his complacent attitude. it's driving me mental.

bklyn - "I do the best I can now to ignore my H when he asks me these cockamayme questions. Like "What do you think of the location of my new apartment?" wouldn't it be nice to just say.. it suxx! wow.. i think i could really make myself happy thinking of all the things i would love to just rant on about. wink

purg - you are a brave brave woman. skydiving!


Me:38.. H:33.
Two beautiful kids S:6 D:3
M:8.. together for 11.
Bomb dropped:10/17/11
Separated:11/07/11