I was on the plane back wondering to myself if I should make an outline for this letter.......like it's my graduate thesis or something. I say that to say I will think long and hard about what I write and how I say it. I think a lot will be rooted in some of my key posts here. It will take me days.
Thank you for sharing the story of your husband's analogy. I think that would have moved me, too. I am hoping I can connect with her a bit better through this or at least validate what she must have been feeling in the year prior to dropping the bomb.
I thought an interesting point was made about this being used against me legally, though I live in a no-fault state. Probably best to write than e-mail.
Anything I should avoid like the plague? Don't want to over-share and I have a habit of that.