The goal remains MORE space than she wants. She's happy as a cat right now. Only if she has MORE space than she wants will she begin to feel the loss of you and assess if she wants that loss. The assessment and decision has to come from her. But she won't ever get to the point of assessing as long as you are comfortably, surely, there on the back burner. She has no reason too as long as you remain a sure thing.
