You might be right about C missing his crisis... b/c he is calm, rational and even jokes with me in her office. And none of that is fake, those interactions are how we've always functioned.... then as soon as we're out the door, it's like he can't get away from me fast enough. I really wish H would go back into IC so he could get a grounded opinion about his behaviors. Our C office has a conflict of interest policy, so H can't gave 1:1 with our MC, and same for me... all though I would love to get her honest opinion of us as individuals.
I need to learn to ignore the crazy statements. So is it just their way of justifying their actions? They can tell themselves: "I gave her the option to give me her opinion, and she chose not to." As if anything I ever said wouldn't be seen as controlling or b!tchy, then he could blame that on me again and say: "see, *that's* why I'm leaving you, you haven't changed" I really hate the WAS mind games!!
M-31, H-31 T-9, M-7 S-6, s-20mth sep 8/1/11 ILYNILWY 11/29/11 Creating separation papers. Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12 H moves out 1.20.12