WAW roomate is telling me she is moving out..

[hangten]

Kolja thanks for the idea.

I kind of like the idea of living somwhere else. As I see this is an end of this stalemate. For me this is a new begining. I am not fighting anymore. My w seems so adamaent to sell my w went out and bought paint. Painting is usually the last thing you do. I said this to my w but she said that this all she can do to get the house ready. I mentioned what ever you want fixed I will do that. My w thanked me.

I was cooking dinner at the time I kind of dirtied the stove top it is white and after I was cooking it was black. My w did not wait for me to finish cooking that she went in to a diatribe about how much of a mess I made. I usually clean up any mess. I said to my w. I will clean up the mess when the stove top cools down. I asked my w when are you moving out cause I won't have to hear you complain like this anymore. My w was shocked to hear me say this. My w kept hovering around me for the next two hours. Asking me do I put unreasonable demands on you? I told my w sometimes you do. For example if I get oil on my shirt from cooking I never would hear the end of it. I understand that you use to do all the washing and that would stress you out. But if it is done how can I change it if it is already done. My w stayed around and she was eyeing me as my kids were jumping on me on the coach.

I am kind of looking forward to moving out. I love my w. I don't think me being here is helping her. I just want to be free of the stress. I aiming for February. I think my w will change her mind. But I am still hodling on to the date of Febraury, I will miss the house but have to do with what needs to be done.