My H also asked me for permission to leave us like yours is asking you for permission to sleep somewhere else. Its so crazy. Come on he said "if you dont want me to go, I wont" really??!!
They dont want "abandoned their family" listed on their Mr. Stand Up Guy Resume.
I do the best I can now to ignore my H when he asks me these cockamayme questions. Like "What do you think of the location of my new apartment?"
I am no an expert but I think your C is missing something about your H and doesnt quite see the crisis he is in, but thats just my 2 cents
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13