Hang in there. My wife has said similar things to me. She doesn't want to be nice or kind to me because she said I would just think things were OK and I'd go back to whatever it is I do that drives her crazy.

Chalk up a score for you on getting checked out too! Good for you! I'd love to have something like that happen but it just never seems to go that way or my W if really good at hiding it.

Hope the next few weeks go OK for you as you all adjust to the schedule. Did anything change from what your H wants to do about stopping in each night or is that pretty much the plan?

Hope they find a solution for your sleep soon. Can't be fun dealing with all this AND not getting any rest.


Me:45, W:45
S:16 D:13
M:22, T:25
Bomb: July 2010
Putting finances in order for "D"
Continue to live in same home-separate rooms