Good to hear that the tension has eased up considerably. The fact that the proverbial "monkey on the back" has been lifted from everyone explains why things seem a little more calm. Be careful though not to confuse this for a softening of your W's heart.

When my W and I finally agreed on a date for separation and after we told the kids, her mood changed 180 degrees. Almost like everything was back to normal, except it wasn't. So just be careful!

I'm also really happy to hear of your work successes. Try your best to keep your head clear so you can build the momentum that seems to be paying big professional dividends.

Nice job, WHG! Nice job!

Me51 W53 S17 S14
M22 T25
Bomb-9/11; A-11/11; I move out 11/11

It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.

Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife