Together since we were 15...Part 2

[purgatory]

Yep. I'm with ya on that one! My H has made comments about not being able to afford two households, having to give me most of his check in the settlement... I want to look him right in the eye and say: "This is your fault, not mine. None of this has to happen. You can change the future for both of us."... of course I never will.

I've found that I've gotten to the point where I can say: "yep, it's going to be hard." and leave it at that...I giggle on the inside because he seems defeated when he doesn't get the 'poor baby, I feel bad for you' routine.