"If, and that's a big if, he decides to wise up and become an honest man who realizes he made a mistake and wants his family back, I wouldn't be against trying to work it out at all. Not without major MC sessions. But he doesn't want that. At least not anytime soon, he says. I'm tired of him calling the shots. This is MY life now, and I am a door mat no longer."
I'm so proud to hear you get some confidence back, I knew you had it in you! Remember that you said these words later down the road when you are in a weak moment.... This is your strength peeking out!!
I'm always surprised when I hear about a WAS (and even my H) make comments such as "my life [censored]"... don't they realize that *they* are the one causing it?! Do they expect sympathy from us?! Just more crazy acts from people who don't know what they really want out of life.... except more cake
M-31, H-31 T-9, M-7 S-6, s-20mth sep 8/1/11 ILYNILWY 11/29/11 Creating separation papers. Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12 H moves out 1.20.12
