Things have been better in my sitch, although we are not R...yet. My W had to go through the anger stage, blaming me, etc. I rode all those out and the thing is that things didn't start to change until I put my foot down and told her enough was enough. That I wasn't the source of her unhappiness and that she had a choice. She could either continue to act like a 12 year old or a mature adult.

Since then, she's been calling me to see how my day is going, does nice things to me, etc. This is after absolutely nothing for 2 years. I may be lacking in alot of things, but patience isn't one of them. LOL.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER