Well, I think I answered my own question in the title of this thread.
I did a Google search of my Exes user name for dating sites again, but this time put the location he is staying in beside it.
I found two more sites.
One of them lists the date of sign up and the last date of sign in clear as day.
He signed up July 2 and last sign in was July 7. Which means.....he signed up two weeks after leaving Canada. During which time he was calling me constantly. Emailing me several times a day, Skyping me, and even texting until we discovered it was hideously expensive.
So I've been duped folks.
He must have planned to just keep me hanging on to take care of his house and dog.
After we met mid tour in Thailand I guess he figured he was safe tto tell me to beat it. Or at the least, not have to keep up the game of pretending like he actually liked me.
So yes, the deal is done.
I will stay here until just before he returns. At which point, I will take $2000 from his account for his part of the wedding trip which will give me the money I need to make it convenient for ME to move.
I will play along like everything is fine until then so he will notify me when exactly he is expected.
II will then book it.
Nice talking with you folks and sorry for wasting your time here.
