Thank you hope2011--

I have never lost a child and I pray that I will never experience that. Thank you for telling me that the day before is the hardest. I understand now.

Yes, the pics were right after he walked out on me. And you are right, they are none of my business.

My 180's are--I am listening to him and without interrupting him.

--I do not over react. I remain calm. (I blow up in private)
--giving him his space
--not contacting him. Letting him contact me.

Attractive to him--

Well, I colored my hair darker, if I know that he is coming over, I make sure I have make up on, some tight clothing to show off my butt and boobs.

That's about it.

I welcome all suggestions!

H: 49
W: 47
D: 6
M: 6 1/2 yrs
H: Bomb #1 6-2010
H: Bomb #2 7-2011
H: Separated: 7-11-11
Reconciling 2-2012
Separated: 1-31-15 (I asked him to move out)