I didn't mean to come off strong in my previous post. I guess I'm feeling that I'm turning into a doormat myself and am angry about how my H is doing his cake eating, too. We, the LBS's, are expected to do all these things, yet the WAS is doing what s/he pleases and thinks it's ok to make such expectations. At what point do you say enough is enough? Where and what is the line between being accommodating and keeping a smoothly paved path home and being a doormat?
I hope your MC session went well. I'm looking forward to reading your update and what your C had to say. I'm sure a lot of it can apply to my sitch.