Well now that I understand a bit better, I actually would prefer to go it alone. I have issues that I need to work on that were pre-marriage, may have contributed to issues in my marriage (ok absolutely did contribute)
I live too close to this not to go, and happen to have the January dates open. I really think I am going to do this! I am super excited about it too. I will check with H about staying with the boys and handling the house for the weekend, but hope to call them tomorrow to schedule
H and I are definitely not in crisis, we are absolutely still in limbo, but would not say crisis. I think he would fully support me doing this, and we can still continue looking for a MC at the same time.
