I feel the biggest statement, is to stop playing the victim.

Courage and strength are traits people want to be around forever NOT the "Woe is me."

We get into the latter when the bomb drops, but to move forward you have to become the former.

Just my .02.

M 38
W 50
S 9, D 6
T 12 M 10
W's 1st EA 4/2007 stopped after confront
W's 2nd EA 6/2010
Separated 7/2010 I bomb dropped 7/2010
MC 2/2011 - 3/2011
W bomb dropped 4/2011
Nothing filed or done