25 Thanks.

Weird thing, last Friday was her birthday and I was there for him. But after Friday, he hasn't discussed her since, at least to me. Now, the day before her birthday, he was very upset and discussed it with everyone who would listen. My opinion of that is, he was looking for attention from his female coworkers.

I doesn't know that I know about the pics. I am keeping them to myself and trying to deal with it on my own.

My friends tell me that I need to have self respect and let him go. If I stay and fight for my marriage, do I not have self respect or pride for myself?


H: 49
W: 47
D: 6
M: 6 1/2 yrs
H: Bomb #1 6-2010
H: Bomb #2 7-2011
H: Separated: 7-11-11
Reconciling 2-2012
Separated: 1-31-15 (I asked him to move out)