It helps to know he's pretending to be someone he's not. When we talked about it he said sometimes he writes her things things and later doesn't feel that way. He says he doesn't know why he does it. I was and still am so hurt. I feel like I'm going through it all over again.
The only plus side is that he proposed we go to a retreat together. Not a couples retreat. He said. I suggested we go to coparenting counseling. He agreed. It's been almost 6mos since DD and I'm emotionally drained.


M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017