Husband Left...Part 4

[25yearsmlc]

this is so painful but SO SIMPLE.......

I wish I knew. Yesterday, I snooped thru my H text messages and found things I wish I never found. One of his co workers that he was involved with, well they sent dirty pics and dirty sayings back and forth. And his ex-girlfriend sent dirty pics of herself. And she is married. I would love to forward those to her husband. This happened a month after we separated. And I found a text from a few days ago that he sent her how he could not get her off his mind and he was horny for her. Think God she lives up north. Now I can't seem to get the pics out of my head. I don't know how to deal with this. If I told him that I knew about them, it would be the end of our relationship. I wish I knew how to handle this.

Any advice would be appreciated.

Thanks

IF YOU WANT THE RELATIONSHIP TO END NOW, TELL HIM YOU SNOOPED (AGAIN!!!)

if not, don't.

the ex gf is married so there's a real chance they are PLAYING unless she wants to physically cheat on her h. Is this porn/horny sexting something your h does or is it always also physical?

Plus Since it happened AFTER you separated you will get nowhere telling him you snooped

and dear God WHY were you snooping if you were apart then?

Go read the relevant parts in DB asap...and don't forget that the recent texts are sent in his depression AND she's far away too so the fantasy only element exists.

Do I think you have big problems with him?

YES
but I don't think this weekend or this month is the time to address ALL of them...and stop snooping!!!

there are no deal breakers in here unless I missed something;
sop there's NO reason for the snooping...get a grip on yourself and be disciplined...

You know you can do better! I believe in you.

((( )))