Thanks Forrest, very lucid and provocative advice. I think she emailed me becuase a I had texted her that I stopped by the house and saw the photos of the pile. I told her it really hurt. I know it was backsliding, but emotions took over there for a moment. Her response, I believe, was to let me know that she has made up her mind and I sould leave her alone.
Me: 44 Bomb: 11/27/11 Divorced:6/12 Life goes on: 6/13