I rarely say stuff like that^^^^ but this is crazy. No kids, no wedding license and NO RING and no time invested...AND
In relation to most on this board, no time, but our time together was intense
no kindness!!! barely contact...
The coldness he has shown is unbelievable in contrast to the kindness he showed before. This is why I am so incredulous I guess. But yes, it's funny, you'd think the cruelness he displays would make me run for the hills, but I just have a hard time digesting it's even him giving that off! But I am no longer in denial
He said he wants you out...what are you waiting for, eviction papers? He'll get to that when he returns and all his things are in one piece.
This was a fear of mine, and I think... part of the reason I was really freaking out. Sunday I was going a bit mad because I realised that I only had less than two months left to try and get all my Sh*t together and move. I would have had to go into debt to do this AND take care of the wedding payments too. Right now, I am pretty much debt free, I really want to keep it this way
One11- like I said, IF there is a chance to turn this around it'll be by you getting back the spine you had before assuming you did have one. But seriously, did you? I don't mean to be mean... I replied to this before. I found my backbone again. Thanks for the 2X4
but was the dating relationship really so deep? Did he know he was getting deployed and needed a warm cushion at home??
We knew he would eventually as he is one of only a few trained for his specialty, and that hold his rank. But not when we got together, moved in, talked of marriage and the future no. He was planning on proposing on our camping trip in June. When he got the orders, he gave me the ring early
and he made NO VOWS to you that he feels obligated to keep now. He made a lot of vows to me. The letters and videos he made since deploying, and plans we made for our future after being together for a while, but I guess everyone does that
YOU are both free to date. I'd at least act as if I was but not to tell HIM...
CAN I ASK: What do you mean "act as if, but not tell him" act as if I am dating?
