Well...just when I thought it quite possibly could be over between W & OM, even though we are now on our 2nd week of living apart, I recently got vibes that something didn't feel right. Last night, I drove by OM's apartment community and found that W's vehicle was on premises. It was still there this morning as I checked on my way to work.
We are living apart... not divorced or even legally separated. Does her relationship with OM make it any less appropriate than while we were married?
When I first knew of OM months ago, I didn't confront W. I figured she'd deny... which she did when I gently hinted I knew. I cowered at the thought of persisting the subject matter with her, fearing it would rock the boat, until just after we made the decision to live apart.
Now, I'm not sure if I should keep this to myself or grow a pair and tell her I know it's still going on.
I had been looking forward to seeing her again this weekend. I now realize her feelings are probably not mutual.
