I guess I logically knew all of this, but hearing someone validate my thoughts is reassuring. We are meeting the MC today. I feel more confident of setting my boundaries in her office because I know that he won't 'go off' on me... and the MC is really great at affirming choices that are good for both of us.
I don't think it's ever occurred to him that he would need to *ask* permission to come over... because he hasn't fully realized that his choice means: this is not *his* house anymore. It's sad, really. My H wants everything to stay the same- but at the same time, wants to get away from *me* and have his own space.... how's that cake taste?!?
M-31, H-31 T-9, M-7 S-6, s-20mth sep 8/1/11 ILYNILWY 11/29/11 Creating separation papers. Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12 H moves out 1.20.12