Originally Posted By: Oneeleven
I know and agree with you guys, but its so hard!

His ex wife came by to pick up mail and some other stuff on Thurs nite. It was the first time we met. We ended up talking for over 3 hours. She had a lot to get off her chest and so did I. But it was helpful to get some insight from someone who knew him well.

I have a nagging suspicion she wrote him an email. And if I am right, that is why he is so mad.

I want so much to write him and say "WHY WON'T YOU TALK TO ME" I want so much to know if I'm right about my convo with the ex getting back with him.

Honestly, I feel like I am losing my mind a bit here.


what right does HE have to be angry at you for speaking to someone who came to the door

to handle MORE OF HIS BUSINESS??

gee it sounds like HE has someone else who can do the finances and paperwork he soooo needs that he can't tell you about it.

FIND ANOTHER PLACE TO LIVE...DON'T FORCE HIM TO KICK YOU OUT OR TREAT YOU SO BADLY THAT YOU'LL MAKE YOURSELF LEAVE AND HE CAN FEEL BETTER ABOUT HIMSELF...

I'm tellng you to get out of that house ASAP! And I'm betting you learned some things about him from his ex w that were NOT so flattering.

Pick yourself up, dust yourself off and move along.

It was not so long ago he was not in your life. Go back to that happy time and start over...


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change