I'll be interested to see what you guys decide. I have an impulse to do the same, but I've also seen in other threads where people have pointed out that if you've already told them that, they know, and saying it again is probably not going to help. Good luck with the decision, I'll be staying tuned to hear about it...


Me: 36
Her: 35
Together 7/09
Married 8/7/10
Separate rooms since at least April 11
"I've decided I want a divorce" 12/5/11
She moves out of state/files 2/7/12
Dissolution final 5/12