"Suprisingly my W takes the lead in suggesting that the issues that plagued her, her entire life are in many cases the same issues that plague her Mom. My W said that her facing of these issues and learning to overcome them are what is helping us in our M and we should apply the same awareness to this sitch. She told her Mom that her Mom isn't really up to date on where our M is, nor its affects on the kids. She said that we are really way much further along and in a much better place than we were before, that we are both fully aware of the others issues, progress, need for time and understand each other very well right now. I just sat back and thought "yeah baby, keep talking"."
Outstanding progress here! Just amazing! Think about how much validation you just received with the comments your W made. I mean you felt like things were improving, but your W pretty much confirmed it as well and in a fairly public way.
Way to go! Keep going Rick!
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