Pretty much the same, yeah. I'm coming to a new place of detachment, it seems there are levels to this. I think we have what money issues we're able to work out, worked out and now I feel it's time to go dark unless it's an emergency with the sons ...or the dog.

He responded to my last email about the house (non-committal), mail (he'll change his address) and stuff in the garage (no answer). The tone seemed different, and I know it's hard in email to gauge that but there was something about his choice of words. He did tell me he was going to be out of town over the next 2 weeks which is something he's not let me know before.

Did you have a "W, I love you and want to work on the marriage but I know you're unhappy so go do what you have to do" talks? I'm weighing that possibility in my mind. I've always contacted him about things, probably too much.

Sheesh, this whole thing is crazy.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss