I thought that I'd add that I recently posted a picture of myself on FB wearing clothes that I bought with X-mas money. They fit much better than my old ones, so they show off my "new & improved" physique. Plus, they also look more "dressy" than my old duds. I got a lot of really great comments! It made me feel pretty.
Also, I seem to have a four-day weekend coming up. I intend to make the most of it. What shall I do besides sleep in, exercise, and catch up on my reading?
An interesting point: I've noticed a recurring trend. Almost every time I discuss my W's behavior with other women away from DB.com, they seem to have a wealth of perspective about it. Many make comments in the same vein as "Women can read other women," or "women know a lot about the games women play." Most seem to be in agreement that my W is playing some pretty obvious and saddening games with me.