So very true. This experience really wakes you up in a very painful way. One day you are on top of the world and next you are completely lost and hopeless. We get used or believe that the R/M will always be there no matter what. I think of a R as I do about life now it can change on a dime . It is like that commercial where they say life comes at you fast. The most tiring thing to me has been the obsession of looking back at my baggage. Things I said and did. I can not stop it at times. I hope we all change and be happier and better people from this.


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden