Originally Posted By: hopefull79
And this past week was the first time he acted depressed around him, and I'm worried he's wanting to try and place blame on me for his feeling that way.


You can drive yourself crazy if you try to anticipate every reaction (especially if you try to figure out how it can be used against you). If your husband has questions why his son is depressed, he should ask his son.

Clear, honest communication doesn't have to wait until the Retrouvaille weekend.

Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."