WAW told me she idoesn't want to be married.

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Thank you as usual 25!!!!(((())))) I do read and reread what you write to me over and over. With your help I am finding the person I was that she loved and that I loved.
When I first got my W's email I thought exactly what you said she is confused and I have always said she has been confused.
In the past few weeks I have seen a very big difference in myself, especially when we are around each other.

Been more involved in the decision making for the past couple weeks as well. My D has to get the tubes taken out of her ear. Well at least one the Doc. couldn't see if the other was still in or not. He gave me suggestions to either wait or do surgery. I signed the consent for texted my wife and told her the options and that I would rather do the surgery now then wait. She was not happy because it is a surgery but it made more sense. So its scheduled. Not saying its a victory but in the past I would have gotten her opinion instead I came out and said I want ...

She needed my assistance this past weekend and she asked me to take my S to a bday party yesterday so she would still have time to go to the gym and food shop with my D. My S and I got home before they did. He asked me to play the wii and I told him no because I was not sure how much he had played that day or yesterday. My W came home and brought my D up who was asleep. She said she still had to get the laundry and the food from the car. She was wearing her gym shorts. I said gimme your keys and I will get everything she just handed them over. I stayed and helped put the groceries away as with my S who deserved some extra tickle time for being very helpful. My payment was my W and S made oatmeal choc chip cookies one of my favorites and W gave me 3 to take home with me. No problems she even asked how my family was doing. My brother put his dog down this past week and my bil walked out on his job and now my sister and him are having issues.

I think she sees the changes I have made. But like everyone says they need to stick. Which they are.