Thank you for taking the time to share your story. While you never commented on my sitch directly, I have learned, and continue to learn, so very much from your posts to others here. I am grateful for the strong, smart, compassionate ladies like yourself here at DB who have stayed around to share your knowledge with those who follow you.
25 - it's so weird to read your old threads and see you were just like the rest of us when the bomb dropped. I can feel your pain and panic between the lines of your words back in 06.
I can see how much you evolved out of that extremely tough sitch.
25 thank you so much for sharing with us. As everyone else has said, you really have done a great job getting through and evolving from your sitch. You have helped so much of us here, and truly are a generous, kind and caring person. Thank you for everything.
M 33 W 29 S 4 M 5 T 7 11/7/11 Separation, W moves in with parents 12/1/11 W: "IDLY, I'm not coming back, it's over" 1/7/12 D Bomb Dropped
"PLAN A: make home here as Warm and loving as possible to counter his "complaining wife" image which he'll use to justify leaving for the immortality Alaska provides. (H turns 50 soon and evidently, thinks extreme cold will stop aging process....all I know is when we were there, 30 y/0 looked 55 to me. Horrible oral hygiene Up there- it's a compliment to say "hey, nice tooth." "
...an early glimpse of 25's budding humor.
Me51 W53 S17 S14 M22 T25 Bomb-9/11; A-11/11; I move out 11/11
It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.
Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife
I echo the sentiments of many other people here. Your comments throughout our sitches have been greatly appreciated, as they are full of wisdom and wonderful advice! IMO, you and MWD herself are two of the best weapons against divorce there are! (As well a tool toward promoting personal growth, positive outlook, in one's self, etc.)
