Wife Left (Part 2)

[Jenna333]

Hey CO. I just got all caught up on your situation. Virtual hugs for you!

When my ex first left a month ago, he told me he wasn't in love with me, didn't see a future with me, felt relief at being away from me. Now, though he still doesn't want to be with me, says we can thunk about it in a couple of months. He wants to be around me. He admits that he's still in love with me. I think it's the 'love isn't always enough' thing happening in my situation. I'm working hard to change myself for ME. He's noticing and thawing. He's a cake eater, though, so it's very hard to see where his mind and heart really are

My point is they feelings change. For now, your wife says she wants a divorce. She may even file. She may go all the way through with it. All you can do is to be the best man you can be. Honestly, I'm so proud of everyone on this discussion board. If our WAS don't come back, it's truly their loss, and I'm confident that we'll find partners someday that love and appreciate who we are.

That pep talk was just as much for myself as it was for you Hang in there.