Forgot to mention one other benefit of her moving downstairs... I got my copy of DR back
I had given it to her long ago... before I knew I shouldn't... it sat in her bedside table in a drawer since October. I don't think she ever read it. When she moved her things downstairs I wondered what would happen with it. And this morning I realized it was now in my bedside table in a drawer.
So at least now I have it again.
Married 6 together 8 Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both SS12, SD10, S6 Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann) W moved out: 2/18/12 D final: 11/12/12 Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD