James my advice is to not have D talks and the process. I would just say W I really don't know how it works we will have to ask our L's when the time comes. I did the same thing and it back fired. My W does not bring the D up at all and neither do I. listen and validate as you did. Good job
"Forgot to add and think this is important: W said that she was very upset at me that it took the S and filing D papers for me to wake up. She said I had many opportunities before and had I made the changes then we would not be in this position"
I don't think that this^^^^ is too bad. At least she is communicating and you are NOW listening. Good hang in there
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
