WHG, wow you really did a great job with it all. Under the circumstances, I don't think you could possibly do any better than what you are already doing. I know it must be very hard though. Hugs to you.
Me - 38, 2nd M, no living children, 1 forever 6 yr old boy H - 44, 3rd M, twins 16
Dating 4/07 M 10/08 Bomb #1 12/10 Bomb #2 1/11 Bomb #3 12/11