Anyway, I guess I'm still on the ride but I don't want to stay on much longer like this.
Hi Snowman,
I just wanted to point out to you that you're in hot pursuit. Have you read DB and/or DR? The more you push, the more she's gonna pull away. It's human nature.
You're repeatedly asking her to explain herself, to go to C, checking cell records...
If you don't want to stay on much longer like this, then you have to change "this." And you cannot change her
You can only change your R by changing your interactions with your W.
Your motto should be "change my marriage by changing myself."
Just my opinion, but if you keep on doing more of the same, you can expect more of the same from your W.