Thanks for all the great advice guys.

Today is a better day. It has been super busy at work and my mind is much more clear.

Something strange... my ex emailed me at work at 1:30AM my time to just comment on how pissed off at me he was and 'what the f*.. do I want'

I ignored the email and here's the funny thing...
We have been having those re-adding each other to Skype issues and lo and behold... he's readded me to Skype.

So a question if you please... I want to go dark. Like severely dark. Pretty much no contact with the exception of a case of emergancy/banking issues.

Well, he is going to be PISSED at me. I will get swearing emails asking if I am ignoring him, etc.

Can I just let all that go? Or should I pacify him with a small answer?

He's been so harsh with me, I don't even want to talk to him because it just opens the wound.
Can I be harsh back and ignore him?

Thanks again to everyone who's taken the time to respond to my sitch. I am having a rough time and can't really talk to anyone IRL, so it helps so much and it helps to know that none of you are biased either, so the advice is honest and true.