"My IC had this to share: the things that we say and do when we're courting or flirting are a version of ourselves that we cannot maintain."
That ties in pretty nicely with the "romantic love" thread...
Me: 36 Her: 35 Together 7/09 Married 8/7/10 Separate rooms since at least April 11 "I've decided I want a divorce" 12/5/11 She moves out of state/files 2/7/12 Dissolution final 5/12