WHG: Chasing that rabbit with the pocketwatch

[workinghardguy]

Oldtimer... I re-read your post... I'm a little confused I think. SD's message to my W was that she feels W is taking them away from me, not that I have abandoned them. That W has now done this twice and SD is concerned because she sees a pattern of behavior, and would like to not get attached to some third guy only to go through this yet again.

I didn't go into "clear this up" mode because I didn't see anything to clear up. I wouldn't anyway, but the point is I think SD sees this as me still being here for all of them (W included) but that she knows her mom and I can't stop her mom from doing what she will.