Congratulations seem out of place for this because of the nature of the sitch, but you handled it with compassion and dignity. I think it was big of you to step in and help W while talking with SS and SD, but I'm sure the kids appreciated knowing that you are still an intricate part of their lives.

I really giggled at her 'basement experience'.... The WAS doesn't alway realize what their *new* life will be like, and her night of mishaps seems like karma came back for some revenge smile

I am impressed that SD had such a bold conversation with her mom. Your W really needed a 2x4 from her. People like to think that we can talk our way out of things or manipulate situations to our advantage- fact it: you can't with kids. Their innocence doesn't allow them to fall for any of it, and they have no problem speaking their mind. I hope you W really considers what her D said to her and the impact of W's life decision have not been lost on D.

Enjoy this weight being lifted off your shoulders.... and sleep better with no snoring next to you smile


M-31, H-31
T-9, M-7
S-6, s-20mth
sep 8/1/11
ILYNILWY 11/29/11
Creating separation papers.
Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12
H moves out 1.20.12