Spent a couple of hours yesterday afternoon with some old mutual friends. Not a word about my W or our impending D. It is as if all our friends think my W died. Her name is not spoken.

Very weird, but I guess they are being respectful of me. Just hate to make my friends feel awkward.

I hate this whole deal. Suppose we all do.


H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012