I'm sure someone else will weigh in. But for now don't confuse detaching with physically not being around or even talking.

Detaching is not reacting to what is said or done. Having ZERO expectations for anything good to happen. Not being mentally affected by what she says or does. For me is is a weird feeling... like watching old movies of myself.

You sound like you are doing well. Yes, maybe that is how we heal a little bit at a time and from a distance....

Aloha,

Wendy


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