I dont think you should stop the frequent contact. I think you might be right that this is her way of healing. See Coaches thread!

Continue to hang out as a family but dont mention your M at all. No pressure, let her come back at her own pace.

Being at home while your H is deployed is really hard and stressful, this is her way of recovering.

You are on the right path.


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13