Do not mention the text messages etc! He will only make it about you & snooping if you bring it up.

Unfortunately as the LBS you have to eat all the garbage. Just ignore it.

Your H is having lunch with you & also bringing up emotional feelings. Those are good signs. Dirty talk & sex pix while intimate are in a completely different catagory then coming to you about his feelings regarding the death of his infant D. Be there for him and help him with those feelings. How could that not make you closer??

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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13