You are a success. Your success is NOT gauged on whether your H decides he does or does not want to be married to you!

I understand what this thread is about, but to my way of thinking that is not an ACCURATE way to judge if you are a sucess.

YOU are a success because you made changes and built a new you!!!!!! That has nothing to do with your H! That is beyound your control!

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Pam

"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned
so as to have the life that is waiting for us"