I will be careful and wait for him to take charge since I always did the leading. Now it is up to him and, I feel that for a reason. I will stay where I am at. If he approaches me for relationship talk I will have him come here. I will let him lead and see what happens. I will not pursue him but, be open to him.
how many threads do you have?
I posted to you elsewhere but I'll bother repeating myself here a little.
Read the Div Busting books (or Divorce Remedy) b/c they apply to your sitiuation in many ways
and you have to ask yourself AND answer this question
HOW WOULD MARRIAGE TO YOU TODAY
BE BETTER OR DIFFERENT THAN BEFORE?
if You have not changed, then why would your h be interested?
I'm only asking so you can DO something to get things going
and not just sit and wait. Life is short.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016