My ex's OW is very manipulative and insecure. She knows my daughter tells me everything. She knows ex has been coming over and spending time with me. She has been demanding they marry and constantly says to ex, "what about me"?.......

I have thought she said this to my daughter to get to me, but who knows for sure. She is dying to be a Mrs. and I think the fact that he has not married her is very telling. It has been 5 years since they have been seeing each other, and 4 years since our divorce.

What I find very interesting with my ex's OW is that she has not developed any type of relationship with my kids. They don't do anything together. She is just there when ex does things with the kids. She does not really talk with them or tell them she cares for them or anything. There is no connection.

When ex first left me the first thing they did was talk about getting married. They were looking at rings and wedding dresses. Nothing became of that. I don't think ex wants to marry her, but he is caught between a rock and a hard place.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11