Update: Perhaps I should just ask my wife. Any recommendations would be greatly appreciated.
NO do not ask her. I would start the LRT if you have not already.
There is a possibility that their is an OM, but if not she is confused and you must let her go.
Begging, pleading will not FIX this. You need to be strong and if you want to make the changes in the house do them for YOU, not as a tactic to get her back.
You are now on your own journey and she is on hers. GAL and continue to make changes for YOU.
